This quote has really been a blessing to me this week: (2021 Update: link now points to Wayback Machine)
The emphasis on self-focused grief and guilt took up the majority of my Christian life for many years. Teen Mania amplified it quite a bit with their “sanctification by force of will” methods. It’s a relief to know that true sanctification only occurs when God’s love bubbles up inside us and overflows to others and in the joy in doing His will.