MSNBC is working with a production company to create a documentary program about cults. They are currently looking for interview subjects. At least one of the filmmakers, Vasco Lucas Nunes, has already worked on the cult documentary, Join Us. Here is what they are looking for: “We are producers partnered with a major news outlet, and […]
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I’ve heard from parents of Honor Academy alumni who feel incredibly guilty and remorseful about sending their child to Teen Mania. After seeing how it affected their child, they feel like they should have known better and now they live with the constant pain of regret. On the other hand, many parents are still clueless
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Since I was the author of the original a letter I thought it only fair that I update those who read it on what has happened since. Ron called tonight to talk with me. He expressed how sorry he was that his words had hurt our family. I told him I didn’t mind him sharing
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Out of one side of their mouths, Teen Mania tells women not to be responsible for causing men to lust. Yet, out of the other side of their mouths, they tell women to make sure they are being feminine and beautiful. The most infamous example of this is Dave Hasz’s “paint the barn” speech. In
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A letter from Ron’s sister-in-law: I’m not even sure how to start this e-mail to you. A family member told me about your site and I have been reading it for over a year now. I am greatly saddened by the stories I read and my heart goes out to all youth who have experienced
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January is Spiritual Abuse Awareness Month. In honor of that, our very own Eric P. has compiled a great list of spiritual abuse resources. With his typical candor and brevity, he breaks down why spiritual abuse is so harmful: It’s bad because it hurts people. It’s worse because it hurts people and tells them they
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Flipping through an old journal, I found this entry that I thought was worth sharing. I’m interested in respect. It doesn’t seem like the “church” respects individuals and their decision making process. I want to be treated with respect, not because of what I do, my “spiritual walk” or anything like that, but just because
(and at Teen Mania, too) I love the resources at Steve McVey’s Gracewalk website. He has a video series on “101 Lies Taught in Church Every Sunday.” The first time I came across his list of lies, I was shocked. These are standard, basic theologies taught in nearly every Protestant church in America! Could they
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Predictably, some commenters on Monday’s post felt the need to specify that you know, grace isn’t cheap. We can’t get forgiven unless we really mean it, etc. God, I’m so tired of that message. Anytime someone tells you that you can only receive grace IF you do/feel/say xyz…they are feeding you bull excrement. (Sadly, well-intentioned
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Holy Freakin Crap. I can’t believe David Hasz actually wrote this on the internet for all to see. Wow. In an Open Letter to the Honor Academy January Class of 2010, he said: Remember it is when you are repentant and living whole heartedly, this is when you are forgiven your sins by God, so
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Every time this song comes on the radio, it reminds me of the Honor Academy. Sing along in freedom. 🙂 Who cares if you disagree?You are not meWho made you king of anything?So you dare tell me who to be?Who died and made you king of anything? You sound so innocent, all full of good
One of my favorite blogs is the Naked Pastor. No, he isn’t physically naked. The title of his blog refers to being emotionally honest with ourselves, God and other people. Its a refreshing oasis in a sea of Christian commercialism and fakery. This cartoon of his perfectly captures the environment of Teen Mania: 10 comments:
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FYI, Teen Mania started several new blogs recently. Will they be posting regular content? We shall see….Here are the addresses (I don’t want to give direct links.) 1) A New David Hasz Blog: www dot honoracademydirector dot com 2) www dot Honor Academy Alumni dot com 3) www dot esoal dot org 11 comments: Maurice
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I don’t get it. Have you ever noticed how many “Christian” leaders are plagued by scandal, yet STILL thrive on the support and offerings of the Christian masses? I just don’t get it. This isn’t about forgiveness and second chances – I’m all for that. But many of these people have NEVER confessed that the
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Over the past few years, the Honor Academy has put in place several new avenues for interns to give feedback to the staff. Everything from the food they eat, to how much sleep they are getting to workplace issues are supposedly covered in these new surveys. However, I believe these surveys do not really uncover
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Many an intern has had dysfunctional romantic relationships because of Ron Luce’s fear-based teachings on marriage and courtship. In his character development class, Ron Luce teaches the Honor Academy interns the “godly” way to have a romantic relationship. He presents a several step process (I quit listening after #6) based on the formula of friendship
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A 2009 intern sent me a copy of the Honor Academy accountability card. Although the accountability system seems to change slightly from year to year, the basic idea is a checklist that each intern fills out weekly to assess if they have complied with the requirements of the Honor Academy. Depending on how many requirements
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If you attempt to post my personal contact information, I will get your IP address. You will be in violation of Internet Harrassment and Cyber Stalking laws: A person commits an offense if the person sends an electronic mail, instant message, text message, or similar communication that references a name, domain address, phone number, or
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We’ve heard a lot about spiritual growth and the Christian life at both the Honor Academy and in American evangelicalism. But what exactly does spiritual growth look like? What are the marks of a mature Christian? What does it mean to “be filled with fullness of God”? Is it an intense discipline to rid ourselves
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1) Via Don Miller I don’t believe the aim of the devil is to get us to masturbate, as is taught in so many churches, but rather to get us to project a righteous identity. And The next time you want to impress your friends with your religious devotion, count it as false religion. And
We are continuing our series on common tactics used by cults. If you haven not already, you can read part 1 and part 2. A common practice in cults and other abusive groups is a routine coerced public confession of specific sins. This is one attribute I have never seen or heard about at the
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One thing I’ve struggled with for a long time is feeling betrayed by God. Since I was wholeheartedly seeking God and wanting to serve Him, why would he allow me to go into such a spiritually abusive and damaging environment? Have you ever felt that way? This has been a tough one for me. Maybe
The Cult Awareness and Information Library (2021 UPDATE: website is now on Wayback Machine) is an invaluable resource in understanding the emotional and psychological issues we face in recovering from our time at Teen Mania. Even TM supporters or people who may not think of them as a cult might be surprised to find their
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I don’t think we’ve talked very much about the severe disorientation that occurs when you leave such an intense, spiritually abusive group. As you begin to uncover how the group has affected you, a profound sense of confusion and betrayal can overwhelm you. Realizing that things you believed in so strongly may not have been
Pushing Jesus is blog focused on recovery from spiritual abuse. For me, the content is hit or miss, but I really appreciated this post which is reprinted below. (Bold emphasis is mine.)Refer to STEP 6: I made a commitment to turn away from my pride and refused to become just like those who abused me.
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